Paradoxically, in addition to tremendous benefits, really valuable knowledge sometimes can backfire as well. There is a lot of literature and information on personal development and law of attraction, that can sometimes confuse people. More and more people become aware of disadvantages of negative thinking. People hear about law of attraction and importance of staying positive. People read things like: “Thoughts are things.” Or “You attract what you think about.” This information can be beneficial, but it can also confuse, if you don’t completely understand how the mind works, and what all of that mean. People become cautious about what they think, they worry about being negative, thinking negative thoughts, and they are scared about what can happen if they continue thinking those thoughts. Some clarification may be needed here. Fist of all negative feelings are not always a bad thing. We were all born with an inner guidance system, your inner GPS – this is our feelings. The thought comes fist, you give your attention to something and it puts you in a specific inner state, emotional state that you feel as a feeling. When you feel negative feelings, it is just an indicator that you inner GPS works well. Your inner guidance system tells you that you are going in the opposite direction from where you want to go. It is useful to know that, so you can choose, shift your focus, give your attention to what you choose, and go in the direction you choose, the direction that will serve and benefit you and lead you to achievement of your goals. Secondly, real emotional and spiritual maturity comes when you reach such a level of self-mastery when you choose your inner state unconditionally, regardless of outside factors. You are not in reaction mode anymore, you come from your essence and from the wisdom of your heart. From the Truth within you. Emotional maturity is not in never thinking negative thoughts, or trying to run away from them. It is about choosing not to believe them when they fly into your mind. “The mind” – mass consciousness, has been around for million years. Those negative, and often false thoughts were thought by many people around the world for centuries. And when you are in “your head” too much, in the state of worrying, managing, cooping, those negative thoughts from the mass consciousness can fly into your mind, and you think negative thoughts. You have a choice though. You can either believe those thought or you can choose not to believe them. When you choose not to give the power to those negative thoughts, and choose not to believe them they vanish, you let them go easily. You can operate from “lower” state, from “the mind” from mass consciousness, or you can put yourself in the beautiful state, the sate that is natural to you, the state of connection and oneness with Source, the state of alignment with who you really are. You can be in your essence, you can operate from the Truth Within, from your Soul, from the wisdom of your heart. When you manage to put yourself in that state you are open to the True Wisdom. That’s where all genius ideas come from, that’s where inspiration comes from. This is the state that makes your life an amazing joyous experience it really is. This is the state in which you operate from your True Power and your True Potential. This is the state when you are connected to Your True Self, to the Source.... to continue reading this article visit: http://www.triumphofhappiness.com/happiness/best-life-coach-in-toronto/
